dunno why the rest of my comment just deleted itself but wtv—anyways, han garam has become insufferable to read. he is getting everything handed to him on a silver platter to reconcile his trauma but NOOO he just has to be king self sabatoge the third and run at the first sign of hardship.
i hate the way this story and its readers are using jaehyuk’s guilt and homophobic past as a way to completely disregard and dismiss his feelings, actions, complete and utter devotion, and genuine desire to be better. i feel fucking awful for him, because he’s come so far and it all just gets thrown back in his face by both the writers and his boyfriend
my problem isn’t even with han garam, it’s with the writing. we’re in season three and han garam has had zero character development, meanwhile jaehyuk has had so much development and depth that the relationship now feels one sided. good lord.
Sorry but you don’t just heal from something like that from day to night. You also csnt expect his character development to be linear either. Shit just isn’t realistic. A lot of us end up self sabotaging shit too, whether we have it easy or not it’s hard to break old habits. Also garam HAS had character development so idk wtf ur talking ab.
Also you can’t b saying this as if jaehyuk doesn’t have a few things to work on himself lmao. Let’s not act like he’s a perfect princess now…
wow. this is ass. wtf?
okay, before anyone yaps at me, I KNOW garam’s feelings are valid. i can sympathize with him because im a gay trans man (ftm), who presents as a femboy. i have trouble being accepted anywhere, including my own communities