I like Garam quite a lot but I think he is delusional: it’s impossible to stay completely hidden if you are in a relationship and have friends/family that you didn’t cut contact with. I don’t think Jaehyuk is asking him to come out to the whole world. Also if your friends do not support you in that - it’s better to weed them out sooner than later. Jaehyuk is being too impatient but I can relate - I hate when people avoid me instead of talking things out. If it’s Garam’s boundary - he should be firm in that as well and find a person who wants to stay completely hidden and isolated from close connections/relationships.
I like Garam quite a lot but I think he is delusional: it’s impossible to stay completely hidden if you are in a relationship and have friends/family that you didn’t cut contact with. I don’t think Jaehyuk is asking him to come out to the whole world. Also if your friends do not support you in that - it’s better to weed them out sooner than later. Jaehyuk is being too impatient but I can relate - I hate when people avoid me instead of talking things out. If it’s Garam’s boundary - he should be firm in that as well and find a person who wants to stay completely hidden and isolated from close connections/relationships.