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Hmmmm, While I do like Jaehyuk's ultimatum but i do see both pov and are right where they ...

Luffyyy April 8, 2026 12:20 pm

Hmmmm, While I do like Jaehyuk's ultimatum but i do see both pov and are right where they stand. Jaehyuk's Pov is only relationship and revolves around Garam and his comfort but that is not how it works and while Jaehyuk has a strong personality + sense of self it cant be only centered around Garam. whereas Garam's Pov is only to how society will view the relationship and that won't work either, he needs to think for his self and happiness and speak up even during this argument.

Idk i could be putting too much thought but taking some space and thinking it through and getting a middle ground is actually imp for both of them

Responses
    Quintenzirkel April 8, 2026 12:30 pm

    I mean, from Garam’s pov ending the relationship would be the best cuz then Jaehyuk doesn’t need to be outed - Jaehyuk isn’t even gay to begin with

    Luffyyy April 8, 2026 1:08 pm

    Yes it could be but it would just be a way out. He likes Jaehyuk so why just run away, Garam needs to think about himself too not just societal expections. Jaehyuk is stubborn in his own way soo idek how it gonna resolve. But a middle ground is better than just one party caving in or a break up

    Quintenzirkel April 8, 2026 1:42 pm

    We're not talking about societal expectations, we're talking about that South Korea still has no anti discrimination laws against LGBTQ+

    Luffyyy April 8, 2026 4:19 pm

    Which i think does tie into society and how they view it, cause at the end the discrimination comes from society. Laws are like a foundation and a part of it, they both work together.

    Luffyyy April 8, 2026 4:20 pm

    And what i mean is I agree they dont have to out themselves but they dont have to break up either. They both should work together...that is what i am getting at. Neither are wrong for their opinions