I really laugh out loud when I see readers saying Jh is justified in his actions. throwing out rings? justified because garam hurt him. kicking the trashcan? justified. outing garam non-consensually? justified. this ultimatum? justified. like it's not hard to see both are dumb, immature and assholes who suck at communication. if you find out your partner is hurt by your actions and the first thing you do is not try and find out why he is hurt but rather get angry or wallow in self pity then you both are being dumb and assholes. there's no "oh you did me wrong, i will do you more wrong". but if most of them are willing to be seme's dick riders, I am willing to be uke's ass licker to just balance out them scales.
OMGGGG EXACTLY THANK YOU
Literally, I don't even like Garam that much more than Jaehyuk, his refusal to let himself be happy/not overthink can be frustrating but I can't stand all the one sidedness rn. Like, the comments just completely flip flop everytime some new bs happens and they conveniently forget everything that happened before. I feel like I'm in the twilight zone reading them sometimes like we're talking about 2 different Jaehyuks
EXACTLY!!! like they're favor jaehyuk too much when he doesn't even experience what garam experience before yet he continues to exclude the reality from their relationship which is why garam continue to remind him things but he weren't even try to listen
ik they're both have valid reason but they're both wrong as well so why sided just one character
YES!! SCREAM THIS LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
There's way too many people in the comments that obviously like Jaehyuk waaaay too much. Maybe it's because I can't let stuff go but Jaehyuk is selfish, doesn't listen, and has anger issues. I can't hate Garam for making Jaehyuk upset no matter how cowardly and uncommunicative he's being .
Jaehyuk has been a good partner to Garam for the most part recently but he's also not trying to effectively communicate with Garam right now either. He's getting mad and lashing out, and pushing boundaries (like always) by trying to out their relationship on the spot, without even asking how Garam would feel about it (like always!)
Is Garam making things easier or if he being self pitying and sabotaging their relationship? Yes. But Jaehyuk wouldn't make me feel like I could talk to him either! He never listens or takes Garams concerns seriously and he's showed that time and time again. He just thinks he can bulldoze his way thru life, getting whatever he wants just because he wants it! Everytime Garams concerned ab something he just downplays it or hides/lies ab the next dumbass scheme he cooks up.
Garam has never asked for expensive crazy gifts, or for him to give things up or cut ties from his folks. But since Jaehyuk thinks with his dick and is only worried about what he wants Right Now he doesn't worry about consequences. You can't do all those things and think you'll never resent your partner for it later when you realize all you've lost/given up. That kind of debt to your partner is heavy and people truly do not understand how Garam could be anxious or sick about it.
TLDR; Jaehyuk is still kinda a bitch and Garam is too realistic and grounded to be with Jaehyuks spoiled selfish living in the clouds ass, or to be understood by your average yaoi slop enjoyer