You get it. That's exactly what Garam is scared of. Garam sees how Jaehyuk easily sacrifices everything when it comes to Garam.
Finally somebody with a freaking brain and actually understand the story
I get it, but I do think that Garam needs to tell Jaehyuk about his situation with his mom. It's a completely different story to be afraid you won't be accepted by your surroundings like his jerk-ex' mother, and to be "experienced" with your own mother literally falling apart because of who you are. From Jaehyuk's pov, his boyfriend doesn't trust him to be his support and actes like he's still completely alone like he used to be. I mean... I get them both, I don't think it's stupid, but they do lack communication
All of u talking big about how Garam should’ve communicated unlike Jaehyuk, when you’ve all forgotten Jaehyuk isn’t the best at communication either and you don’t see Garam kicking up a tantrum.
Jaehyuk lied about the house, didn’t share about his family, didn’t talk about where he was getting his money from (the modeling gig). Garam is reasonable to have left the way he did. The best he could do was a note because he didn’t want Jaehyuk immediately running after him.
This isn’t just a matter of Garam not wanting to be out. It’s how Jaehyuk is throwing his life away for Garam. Garam essentially sees this as a downgrade; Jaehyuk is downgrading for Garam and that’s horrifying. Especially when Garam has trauma associated with being gay. To Garam, Jaehyuk is throwing his perfect life for a worser one by being in an open gay relationship with Garam.
There’s nothing to talk about if your partner refuses to listen, is stubborn in what he thinks is right. If Jaehyuk isn’t reasonable now, what makes you think he would’ve been reasonable if they had talked it out in person?
It’s fair to assume Jaehyuk didn’t know about Garam’s traumatic past and that should’ve been expressed, but again, this is not what this whole fight is about. If they were a straight relationship, what Jaehyuk is doing would’ve still been just as horrifying to Garam. Again, to Garam, Jaehyuk is throwing his life away, and he wasn’t telling Garam.
What more would Jaehyuk throw in Garam’s name and not tell Garam if they continue to stay together like this?