I don't even think it's straight coded but more society and male coded (since most LGBT people are still being parented by straight people); men are thought from a young age that it's fine to pursue women until they agree, that they need to conquer, are natural leaders and more bullishit, too many men believe in toxic masculinity, hiding emotions and putting on a mask of a strong man when they also never learn how to control their emotions and how to properly communicate

As a straight man, im inclined to side with Jaekyung because we only see women as accessories (put a ring on it). If a women wants to leave us, we resent them because they should be controlled. Just like Dan who serves only a hole to Jaekyung. This is a special insight in the mind of a straight man. ok, I know Jaekyung is gay but he is straight coded.