You could say the same for straight people Some never date but then they're attracted to this one person they know they're the one just because they were never attracted to someone else doesn't mean they weren't straight.
also asexuals don't need to have sex to know they are, So them saying they're not gay because they won't ever be attracted to another man but would date multiple women doesnt not make them fruity

Is anyone else tired of Straight Guy Only falling for the gay man because he's the one trope Or say if they were a girl that would be great It's like if they broke up he would instantly start dating women And I just realized why I don't like it it's like a guy saying you're not his type but he would try going out with you and falls in love with you but then it just makes you feel shitty because You know they would instantly go back to their type after they're done with you like they're experimenting If they're not absolutely in love with you then.
It just feel like an excuse when they're asked if they're gay and they come up with their excuse or defend themselves like it's a terrible thing to be gay or bisexual I don't know if you can't find other people attractive that have the same commonality with you And I also feel like it's homophobic at its core because it can't be compared to what I'm saying It's like they're trying to deny a sexuality it'd be a different thing if they said they're attracted to personalities or something like that But it feels like a degradation and homophobia I don't find it romantic or cute