i think the term that was used for the translation is wrong. it's supposed to be consensual non-consensual (cnc), and it's kinda common for folks that are into bdsm. there is still safe word so that they can stop the play. idk if im making sense but clearly the author is not fetishizing rape, it's just that the translator termed it wrong. im pretty sure the word will be different once there's an officla english translation.
ma'am...sir....reader.... this is BDSM. It's a "play" with consent and safe words. They are still doing good. The mangaka isn't doing rape and then cosplaying it as BDSM. That's bad. They are both consenting parties. It's a PLAY.
Funny, people get physically abused too which is also a traumatic experience and they're doing it in their play but it's fine for you? Anyway this is not real rape, author is not feteshizing it. It's a play and they are consenting to it like what natsuhi said. And, as ninifwops mentioned, the translation might be different from the official ones so it sounded worse than it really is. I don't know much about BDSM but I do know they have safe words and all that so this is very consensual but playing it as non-consensual. ML even disagreed to it at first but changed his mind and even ask MC if he still wanted to do it. So, it's still good.
To the people replying or wondering why I’m complaining, I know it’s consensual, and that’s a good thing. It’s just something feels weird and gross about this thing specifically for me. It makes my gut twist, and I feel uncomfortable or grossed out when thinking about it. You don’t have to feel that same way, but that’s just how I personally feel.
Maybe it is cause it said “rape”. Like I feel like they could’ve called it something else ngl
It's fine to not like Rape Play. Also I think it's fine to call it that if it truly is that. You can say CNC too but Rape Play is part of CNC so maybe it would be more accurate to say Rape Play depending on what the next chapter shows.
But again, it's ok to not like Rape Play. Many ppl in BDSM dont have the same kinks. That's just being people. It's ok to say you don't like it and that you're not comfortable with it.
What i found weird was shaming a kink when you're reading a kinky manhwa and calling it fetishization. True fetishization is Sadistic Beauty BL Sidestory. Reading that was terrible! Block it from your list. This story tho? No. It's not fetishization.
i completely agree with you. nothing is more annoying when someone is like “Ew i hate this thing why would the author even do this” and when people defend it they go, “i was just stating my opinion”. buddy u can state ur opinion without being condescending and rude. what you just did was basically shaming for no reason based on your own interests. to me its equivalent of telling someone “your lunch looks disgusting”. sure its ur opinion but thats not how you express it. it really isnt.
Stop reading it then lol this type of play doesn't impact you at all or anyone else. It's done behind closed doors by consenting adults. It's not like you see your neighbors doing it on a Sunday afternoon in the yard outside.
Thank you. Rape play is actually not that common and considered an extreme type of play even in the BDSM community lol a type of CNC is more common than that specific scenario. Kink shaming and just making people feel bad for liking it is weird. Mind you many sa victims may seek out to do this to reclaim their sexuality and the narrative of a situation that deeply impacted them and it would be a full circle weird moment to shame them lol
Why are we fetishizing rape?? An actual traumatic event that happens to real ppl?? Like please bro. Rape play is the last thing I wanna see. Yall were doing so good bruh