So... i think you should post this on "people are sharing things" since I think people advice there more than here
But anyways, basically he is like being mixed signals and polite at the same time... you must be also close to be invited to eat with his family too... is it like usual or unusual in your culture to bring a friend to eat with their fam? because it depends if he is treating you specially... and does he bring other people too, then it means he is just kind... I think you should think more of his other action... and scale if he is just kind or polite or interested in you

so i have a friend that i highkey like, he’s been picking me up for church and then also taking me back home, his family welcomes me and lets me eat after church (although i’m kinda shy now) and we have slept (nonsexually) on his bed TWICE during afternoon, we talk on tiktok a lot but that’s pretty much it. we’re not that close on other socials. his lovelife background’s messy as hell cause he such a redflag AND my friend sent a picture of him and his ex tgt lowkey idk what to do, i’m so bummed about it im ignoring him rn but he still spamming me tiktoks and also he replied on my ig story and i’m holding back so much cause what the hell is this ordeal