Victim blaming goes crazy she 'lets' herself get manipulated yeh like that works
You must be a fool. I’ve noticed that you guys like to gaslight others, anytime someone calls out the FL’s actions, you jump to this "victim-blaming" argument. So get the fuck out of here with that perpetual victim mindset all you FL defenders have, and maybe try growing a spine so you can start hold yourself accountable for your own actions without hiding behind the victim hood card, dumb ass.
I fear for your patterns in real life, you disgust me
Bro are u dumb??? Read ur whole statement again and come back cuz u might have actually lost ur mind. U ARE IN FACT VICTIM BLAMING. She was in a vulnerable state, depressed and thinking she lost the person she love and the guy came in saying he can make her feel better and forget it all. He was manipulative in the moment especially to someone depressed and is out of it. And u decide to blame the girl than the guy. Ur def a pos dumbass. Bro if anything, the guy is more at fault. No one said the girl is in the right, but straight up saying it’s only the girls fault is very stupid of u frr.
I should be the one asking if you all are dumb, trying to use ‘manipulation’ as an excuse to justify wrong actions. ‘Victim-blaming’ is the excuse you guys keep using so you don’t have to hold female characters accountable for their actions.
Manipulation explains what happened, it doesn’t justify the actions. It’s not the same as brainwashing or mind control, where someone has no say or ability to stop themselves from making decisions.
Honestly, the way you’re all defending her actions is ridiculous, but I’m not even surprised. Next time, learn the actual meaning of things before you start saying nonsense.
You all sound like those cheating men who claim they cheated on their partner because they were lonely and someone came along, manipulated, and seduced them
Omg ur pissing me off frr. Nvm it will be useless arguing with a dumbass like u since it seem like u didn’t read the whole thing I wrote before. Keep going with that stupid narrative that u want and let it happen to a family/intimate person of yours and see what happens.
The only person pissing anyone off is you with your ridiculous points, which are just as dumb as you. The moment someone calls out your takes that don’t make sense, you try to act like they’re the one being unreasonable, when in reality it’s you.
I bet you wouldn’t be saying the same thing if the ML were the one messing around with another woman while the FL was being held captive and trying to return to him. I’m tired of this double-standard, hypocritical bullshit.
I’ve read the story and clearly understand what I’m saying, I can’t say the same for you
And maybe when it happened to your own family and you, let me see if you will defending and justify it clown
Gosh, I can’t believe people are defending cheating, like, are we for real? Let’s take a real-life scenario: a soldier goes to war and promises his wife or girlfriend he’ll be back in a week or at most a month. But something happens, and she doesn’t hear from him for over four months. He couldn’t contact her, even though he wrote letters and didn’t get any response, which wasn’t her fault either.
Then, during that vulnerable time, she lets another guy manipulate her and almost sleeps with him, even passionately making out with him. Only for her partner to return shortly after and see her with that guy. Do you think that’s fair to him? Now let’s reverse the roles?
The comment below mine and the people who upvoted seriously need to be studied lol, because you can’t tell me someone you claim to love is only worth 4 months of loyalty. Just because you can’t wait doesn’t mean others can’t, so don't drag others into it just to justify your actions.
The FL was wrong for crossing that line, but she should also be acknowledged for snapping herself out of it before making a bigger mistake. Let that sink in