She is on the wrong, and so is the bf...somewhat. she struggles with boundaries and priorities. She shouldn't have her work running her life if she didn't what the cons of it. There lack of communication is another thing, a relationship can't be if they don't communicate. Y even be with someone who refuses to open up and actually talk to the other? It's a partnership first and foremost, what's the point of a partnership if not to lean on each other for help? He deserves someone who actually makes time and effort to see and talk to him and she needs someone to actively push to see what's wrong and to comfort and correct her way of thinking.
She is on the wrong, and so is the bf...somewhat. she struggles with boundaries and priorities. She shouldn't have her work running her life if she didn't what the cons of it. There lack of communication is another thing, a relationship can't be if they don't communicate. Y even be with someone who refuses to open up and actually talk to the other? It's a partnership first and foremost, what's the point of a partnership if not to lean on each other for help? He deserves someone who actually makes time and effort to see and talk to him and she needs someone to actively push to see what's wrong and to comfort and correct her way of thinking.