as far as i remember in kaze to ki no uta, all of these harsh topics are handled pretty carefully. you're able to tell through the narration and the way the story progresses that the traumatic things the characters experience are not okay. the children are victims, the story is tragic. nothing is romanticized by the author.
meanwhile, your average rape yaoi in this age is romanticized heavily, the rapist is usually a main lead, and then their victim falls in love with them.
i think dark topics CAN be explored in yaoi, or any media for that matter, because these are real life things that people can go through. but most authors nowadays do not handle the topics with care, they throw it into their stories and don't give a fuck about their impact.
yup yup, nowadays rape in yaoi is just so normalized and you just don't see real repercussion in it, the characters magically aren't as affected by it and it's always portrayed in a sexy manner- which, don't get me wrong it's not like these should never ever exist, but it's basically THE NORM now. To the point it's often overlooked and it takes an extra step of ”evilness” for people to start actually having a reaction to it
i read manhwas since 10 years bby, i unfortunately discovered rape fetish before you had your first smartphone probably lmao. where i was surprised?? i clearly said im worried that more and more stories have rape in it, now if you’re okay with it that’s you but just to let you know it’s weird when y’all defend these things… like i get you need validation for your fetish but don’t come after people who don’t like it cause you know, we are different.
Babe please calm down, the only one angry here is you. Don’t like it, don’t read it. I promise your life will be more peaceful after you stop obsessing over what strangers online read. Sending love and peace, you need it PS I recommend trying some mood stabilisers, heard from a friend they help with cases like yours

i’m so worried that it seems nowadays rape-only stories are becoming more and more frequent and liked… guys please this is not normal.