Ik everyone is taking about the safe word and how he would use it if he really didn’t like it but also keep in mind he wasn’t just crying, trembling and not saying a word, I mean when the got in bed (unless I read the entire thing wrong), he called out to ajjushi* and called him “daddy” which shows he is able to speak and communicate what he wants and in that scenario he continued the play ( I think?). Though it’s uncomfortable for me personally, i want to have confidence that he’ll speak out whether during, by saying the safe word, or after saying this play isn’t what he likes.
Ik everyone is taking about the safe word and how he would use it if he really didn’t like it but also keep in mind he wasn’t just crying, trembling and not saying a word, I mean when the got in bed (unless I read the entire thing wrong), he called out to ajjushi* and called him “daddy” which shows he is able to speak and communicate what he wants and in that scenario he continued the play ( I think?). Though it’s uncomfortable for me personally, i want to have confidence that he’ll speak out whether during, by saying the safe word, or after saying this play isn’t what he likes.
Sorry for the long message!