i hate when the fl creates novels in her head about how she doesn't deserve xyz and just e...

i hate when the fl creates novels in her head about how she doesn't deserve xyz and just endures endless harassment to "keep the peace" or bc she feels like she deserves it. not only is it annoying as a reader, it's cruel to her loved ones who want her to be happy and not hurt and who's love and sincerity she tramples on when accepting harassment from other, also trempling on her house's honor