Nope this one is pretty common . And it is widely studied and it does that to relationships. Honestly I pray for ppl who fear abandonment and loneliness bcz of a serious or a minor issue to find their way to happiness . They screw their relashionship one by one and they may lose a potential love life due to fear. I'm glad authors knows about those common things and write about them.

This was amazing to read. Also fuck the ml trauma. Its so weird that writers put up weirdass dead mom traumas to somehow justify the ml's asshole behaviour. Im so glad our girl did not just take it sitting down