Hi someone who practices BDSM in their life here. It's such a big community on trust, if you can't trust your Dom then theres something wrong. If I remember in the story they said something like the "Sub is in control" and that's so true. As Subs sometimes if theyre new to this dont know their breaking point of the difference between pain and pleasure I've made a comment about this of Wookyung before on how he can't differentiate that. Most BDSM wouldn't per say be true violence because theres trust and concent behind it. Theres so many varies that can seem different like CNC and all of that. I actually like the later chapters as something alot of times we make contract rules and draw lines between violence and pleasure, and helping eachother explore without hurting yourself badly or in worse cases losing your life. It's a hard community but that's why we have so many rules within community especially about trust and concent
Read all existing to updated chapters in less than 24 hours (even while at work lol; i wfh) and at first I was really confused on how chaotic they both are at each other. How violent everything is (this is my first time reading an actual/serious SM story). I never was into violence and obv will never be into it irl, but for some reason I got hooked in to the story lmao. Like I'm also curious on what/when their breaking point is. Cuz they been doing deez crazy plays and they even haven't reached their limit yet. The thought that people irl are actually into this type of kink and mustve done worse than these.. it really helped me get through till the recent chapter lol. Like I just accepted the way they think and just understood the violent shts they do. For someone who skips the violent scenes on kdramas, never would have I ever thought that I'd get hooked on this story lol.
AND I feel sorry for those who have read and continued reading this since it was released. LIKE i would never be able to get through their 'enemy' arc, waiting for every update and see if they have confronted each other already.