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switches for the win

Trashi April 26, 2026 1:16 am

I hate it when they are so averse to switching, like it seems so toxic? You don't "see yourself as a man" bottoming so you will always wanna top then what about your partner? Especially if they show interest in switching roles.
This type of behavior is so straight-coded, to see one of the parter as "the woman" in the relationship.
It left such a poor tase in my mouth I couldn't even enjoy the breeding

Responses
    seoulights April 26, 2026 1:38 am

    tbh, sometimes irl it's j a preference for which role/body part you like/feel most pleasure with since everyone's different. but with manhwas/mangas, etc. it's almost always aligned with some misogynistic views since there are still many straight authors in this genre that don't actually understand queer dynamics, so they use straight dynamics. to do that, the bottom will always be the "woman" in the relationship

    hell, i know an author who said her mc was straight & him masturbating with a friend in high school was j "locker room behaviour"

    jorden April 26, 2026 3:08 am

    "straight coded" yeah bruh you gotta die irl

    Trashi April 26, 2026 7:37 am
    tbh, sometimes irl it's j a preference for which role/body part you like/feel most pleasure with since everyone's different. but with manhwas/mangas, etc. it's almost always aligned with some misogynistic views... seoulights

    I'm saying in the cases like here where it's clear your partner WANTS to switch and you just don't want to let him, and you know the author won't let him too it just feels icky

    Trashi April 26, 2026 7:42 am
    "straight coded" yeah bruh you gotta die irl jorden

    What the fuck is wrong with you ?

    jorden April 26, 2026 9:12 am
    What the fuck is wrong with you ? Trashi

    Oh i should be saying that to YOU for talking abt gay people like this Youre fucking weird as hell bruh

    Trashi April 26, 2026 4:27 pm
    Oh i should be saying that to YOU for talking abt gay people like this Youre fucking weird as hell bruh jorden

    I was talking about it being weird to view one of men in MLM relationship as "the woman" how it's rooted in the straight perception of the world that the author's of bls often have, commenting on the issue, and you are telling me to die? What is wrong with you ???

    jorden April 26, 2026 7:51 pm
    I was talking about it being weird to view one of men in MLM relationship as "the woman" how it's rooted in the straight perception of the world that the author's of bls often have, commenting on the issue, and... Trashi

    oh god forbid a guy wants to nut in his uke youre jus making shit up and you sound like an idiot. jus because one partner wants to switch doesnt mean the other has to if they dont prefer it, youre being ignorant because you have some sort of fetish for switches apparently

    jorden April 26, 2026 7:52 pm
    I was talking about it being weird to view one of men in MLM relationship as "the woman" how it's rooted in the straight perception of the world that the author's of bls often have, commenting on the issue, and... Trashi

    you cant commentate on an issue if nothing youre saying is correct lol

    Trashi April 26, 2026 9:50 pm
    you cant commentate on an issue if nothing youre saying is correct lol jorden

    I see you're not in a normal state of mind, and just here to pick fights and swing ad hominem.
    I will not engage you any longer

    jorden April 26, 2026 10:10 pm
    I see you're not in a normal state of mind, and just here to pick fights and swing ad hominem.I will not engage you any longer Trashi

    funny how you disengage after i elaborate on my point XD how cowardly