This kinda makes me realize that Jaehyuk is an anxious attachment while Garam is more of a avoidant. They aren't entirely those things but it aligns with them in many ways. For example, the phone call. Jae was willing to wait hours for Garam to say something, begging inside that he would just reassure him. While Garam wasn't willing to say a single word. Garam ran away. He ran away when they had one very serious fight. He says Jae is compulsive but he is continuing to make compulsive decisions. It's just Jae makes them outta love while Garam makes them out of anxiety/fear. He avoids what is tough. I feel bad for both of them and can understand both sides. If it weren't for this chapter I'd be completely on Jae's side. But Jae is starting to piss me off too. He's just being petty because he's hurt and feels unloved, he can't outright cut of the love of his life so instead he's doing this immature friends BS. They're opposite in so many ways that it will be hard for them to work out if they can't come to a compromise. Jae needs to chill and respect Garam's boundaries while Garam needs to try a little harder at showing his affection to Jae and reassure him when he needs it. Also stop running from his damn problems. They both need to just fucking talk like damn adults.
This kinda makes me realize that Jaehyuk is an anxious attachment while Garam is more of a avoidant. They aren't entirely those things but it aligns with them in many ways.
For example, the phone call. Jae was willing to wait hours for Garam to say something, begging inside that he would just reassure him. While Garam wasn't willing to say a single word.
Garam ran away. He ran away when they had one very serious fight. He says Jae is compulsive but he is continuing to make compulsive decisions. It's just Jae makes them outta love while Garam makes them out of anxiety/fear. He avoids what is tough.
I feel bad for both of them and can understand both sides. If it weren't for this chapter I'd be completely on Jae's side. But Jae is starting to piss me off too. He's just being petty because he's hurt and feels unloved, he can't outright cut of the love of his life so instead he's doing this immature friends BS.
They're opposite in so many ways that it will be hard for them to work out if they can't come to a compromise. Jae needs to chill and respect Garam's boundaries while Garam needs to try a little harder at showing his affection to Jae and reassure him when he needs it. Also stop running from his damn problems.
They both need to just fucking talk like damn adults.