Never read love is an illusion but ok your "little girl" comment is coming off derogatory cuz what do you mean? Little girls and boys have just about the same stature anyways. Your wording itself is the whole problem with the demonization of femininity. Seriously quit it. Yes I do actually have proof of the same exact people doing this hypocritical behavior as I was often times in many bl/gl and any type of queer spaces. Its hypocritical and I have seen it what more do you want? For example look at the comment section here and look at the comment section under "Reincarnated into Demon King Evelogia's World"
I am literally queer and feminine bottoms are quite common in the community so now what? Are you gonna go around calling it heteronormative? No its not been the "norm" there are many times of gay men and all the of them are depicted equally especially nowadays sure you can argue historically japanese bl had been like that but not anymore. There is a perfect balance now so now I fear people like you are complaining just to complain
Ypu were born like that, most bottoms being made feminine are FABRICATED by hetero women, are you dense or what? I am talking about the genre if you cannot tell and in THE GENRE feminine bottoms is a norm. Even to the point where in asia lots of people called the bottom wife, just cause he is the one taking it. Maybe study the difference between queer art and queer community and yaoi history. Cause if you think yaoi was made to represent gay men, I have news for you
Not anymore? Most bottoms are still feminine (still shorter, still more delicate features, will not even mention how just like women often they are drawn childish), so I dunno why are you acting like they are not. No, they aint depicted in an equal way and you know. The standard is still feminine bottom + less feminine/masculine top, speacially in works that have heavy abuse.
Oh wait you read jinx lol, prime example but you still cannot get it. But it is okay, go slowly, maybe you will get it someday if you actually read yaoi history and development. What a huge coincidence the most popular bl manhwa in korea is AGAIN a feminine bottom being dominated by an over masculine top in a violent way? We never saw this omg??? But .. must be just a coincidence again.
Are you slow? I said historically yes it was made by women for women but consumption has changed and feminine bottom men regardless if they were made by women or made by gay men still exist the same way in fiction or in real life. I need you to think, does it matter if the feminine bottom is made by a man or woman? As long as its done without it being disrespectful or weird. And actually no, alot of women turn to yaoi not so they can see themselves as the feminine bottom but so they can see themselves as the top. How is that heteronormative? If that's the case, they would all just turn to straight romance only.

Some of you don't have any problem when the top is feminine...but how come it sets your ass in fire when it's the opposite