Thank you for this, you couldn’t have said it any better. I honestly believe that even if Bibi had seen her kissing that guy, he would have still forgiven her. Maybe he would’ve been enraged at first, since he loves her and hates that guy, but if she had explained, he would’ve understood. That’s just how sweet, innocent, and devoted bibi is, and also how crazy he is about our FL.
That’s why I want them to have a happy life together. The FL did sacrifice a lot for Bibi, she took him in as a child and cared for him instead of leaving him to die. I really love them and only wish the best for them moving forward.
My issue is with these FL defenders who refuse to accept that the FL was wrong, even if there were reasons behind her actions. They make it seem like she did nothing wrong and shouldn’t be called out at all. Like, are we serious? You would never see this kind of reaction if the ML was the one who messed up like this.
I’m currently reading another manhwa where the ML got raped, and the fans’ issue isn’t even that he was assaulted, it’s that he ‘slept with another woman’ while being in love with the FL. I was honestly in shock
Oh god! Just about last thing you said
Thankfully I recently started to see more ppl talking about, but it's still astonishing and disgusting to me how men being raped by women is smth that's not real! And it even extends to teenagers, so basically boys! Even if it's not full on raped, men also can be coerced into sex and be victims, men can be drugged and manipulated
It's not that hard to get a man erect and then you just carry doing what you would normally do when you would have sex with one, just disregard his unwillingness to, duh
Oh, men are stronger and can push a woman away? Even when they're drugged and drunk? Even when they're afraid to hurt a woman and that suffer legal consequences? When the woman hold some power over him?
If we so venomously defend female victims, we should do the same for men
Neither men or women are angels and it's not badmouthing or discriminatory, women freedoms include the right to be abuser and right to suffer consequences, that's equality to, otherwise it's patronisation
But talking about situation specifically here, I think ppl just got defensive on her behalf, cause the other side was ready to strip her naked and throw eggs and curse at her like a whore at her while she would be walking down the street, ya know?
I see defo problems in comments here often that ppl can't express their position or opinion on smth without attacking ppl that disagree, like they start their messages with accusations even often
Like no one yet opposed them, but they already angry at them and with so much poison
I just very much so hope they don't approach their personal life situations like that
Cause if they do they must live in soap opera, they must really have situations in manhwa that we all make fun of: when smn sees smn with a baby and immediately packs their bags and goes 'he fucking cheater! He has a secret babyyyyy!!!'
Like whole world and humans are made of nuances, we understand that premeditated murder is very different from murder as defence, right? Same goes for everything else. If you have no care to differentiate you're actually often happen to be very cruel and indifferent individual that makes innocent suffer. And even if come later with apologies that change a single thing then
Now would be good time to bring it up, girl
I honestly don't believe anyone who were making such a big deal out of what happened older than like 25 max
Was it bad that she went along with it? Yes
Was there excusable factors? Yes, for one he left her alone for rather long time without news, in their time she could have been gangraped and dead by the time he'd be back
Does she need to confess and humbly beg for forgiveness? Yes
Would it be understandable for him to feel angry and betrayed? Yes
If his care and feelings for her deep and he manages to see situation in its whole from her perspective will he be able to find sympathy and forgive? Yes
Yes, there're adults that break up over this, however most older ppl understand that some bad things happen and you can make mistakes, especially when you left alone, scared and confused: and also know how hard it's to find smth special to want to spend your life with, don't throw away relationships just like that
It's not exactly the same, but she believed that tho he's monster he's not crazy murder, now he can try to believe that she misstepped because she was alone and scared
Yeah, cause 'cheating' can mean a lot of different things that aren't at all of the same weight
Like quite a lot of ppl actually think that watching porn is cheating too