i'm number one hater of when fl transmigrated into bl novel, but i loved this one 😂😂...

Oh man this was supposedly a BL novel? Yea Imma drop this. I love my BL too much.

can't blame you

Y'all are weirdos why do y'all fetishize gay men so much

Some parts of the BL genre can fetishize gay men, but whether it is inherently fetishistic depends heavily on the specific work, creator, and consumer. The genre spans a wide spectrum from exploitative content to genuine romantic storytelling which is how most genre go. Just let people enjoy what they want unless it’s gang bangs then nahhhh.

Oh some stuff are great and there are very sweet stories out there! It's just weird when someone is specifically asks only for specific yaoi stuff
The BL community is full to the brim with toxic fetishized dynamics which are very often romanticized. I don mind if that's what they like as long as they don't constantly act weird about gay people. I say that as a queer person myself. There's a specific kind of BL fans that creep me out.

It's funny that you draw the line on gang bangs though HEHEHEH

So many nice stories have been ruined by suprise gang bangs. I’m not talking the consensual kind though.

The only reason I don't like it when it's a bl world, is because all the gay men suddenly become straight for the FL. It's like they have been curred from being gay or that the FL is just so good, their sexuality obviously has to shift.

See I never thought about it that way cause every time I read a BL I’m just thinking like why is everybody gay. Like if only real life was like that and the whole world would just bend to your sexuality because of your main character energy. Like everyone from the teachers, brothers, step brothers, the main loves siblings, randos on the street, like every time they go out somebody’s trying to get their asses. But also like there’s a lot of them where they’re straight and then they meet a guy and it’s like well that’s the only guy you know. So like they didn’t meet that guy in this instance. I don’t know my sexuality is all other the place so when someone says they are straight and everyone in the comments are like “but your have anal sex with a guy” him just like one mad cause why you telling them what they can identify with?! Maybe I’m crazy

Yeah that's also one of the reason I don't really read BL anymore, some of they have every man turning gay. But I'm fine with stories where you have both gay and straight people. And I guess people would say a man having sex with another man is either gay or bisexual because he would usually need to have desire to do so?

Yeah, I know, but like it just pisses me off. I mean if bro, wants to say he’s straight with an Asterix next to it and a little explanation down at the bottom that says sometimes I let this one dude fuck me in the ass. Like because what is that? Like if they one let this one dude hit and they’ve never thought about anybody else except them and after them, there won’t be another person. Like bro, wasn’t on dicks from day one. I think that’s called something else, where your sexual preference depends upon the person that you fall for.

Frrrr every single BL world story I've come across it's eother like you guys said, every single person is gay or they suddenly go straight for MC.

As for the reply before me, I actually think you're referring to demisexual which is what I mainly identify with.

Yes omg that’s it and i was feeling that with Shinyuu no. Such a good read. Like my husband is my husband but if im watching porn it’s just females and only females. Not even a strap on or something. But like I love reading my all romance cause BL started sneaking in random gang rapes.

Wait maybe Nani Sore Ai ka yo is the first one but it feels Demi

I think I'm kinda like that. I cannot imagine having s*xual relations with someone else other than the one I love. I am kind of weird like that.. Homo or hetero labels don't really do it for me coz I really don't feel s*xually attracted to anybody other than the one I love. Maybe it's just me..

Naaah it's a pretty real experience, having no s*xual attraction to anyone besides specific people you build a bond with, I find that demi-gynosexual might be the best label I could find for myself so far but it really doesn't matter that much (for me). Whatever feels right to you is valid :3

I'm not that well versed in BL reading but it's really interesting getting recommendations, ayyye thanks for the info!

I used to be very well-versed. But then I stumbled upon way too many random gang rapes and I have been reading one Isekai princess story after another ever since. I never understood why anybody would read this heterosexual shit. I get it now. It’s my safety safe. Because they’re out there acting up in the yaoi. I bet yuri don’t have issues like this.

You're riiiiiight TT I WISH WE HAD MORE GOOD YURIIIII
I crave wholesome slowburn fluff without all the weird fan service shit.
I've been into isekai princess stuff but a lot of the plots have gotten too repetitive and cliche sadly