Hmm... You really can't say that thing... because it *depends* on the people who experienced that heartbreak. Maybe for you, it easy to say that but for that person probably isn't. You think in just few years he will move on and let go? They don't even have closure and explain their sides so how can they even let go that easily and have peace of mind after that... You see your partner, your first love, you see in your own eyes that he is having sx with someone else and betray you...the trust you gave to him, your everything... It's too much to bare actually if you're in his shoes.

They all act so immaturely as if everything happened a few months back, but it's been 10 YEARS!!
It would be better with 5 even, but 10 and you all are not over it at all?? Nahhh