no fr
these older fujoshis will throw “newgen” around like it’s an insult. i’ve been reading bl for many years, i’m not “newgen” i’m tired of them excusing rape. yes its fictional, so what??? yes it’s been going on for decades, so what??? we’re still reading about queer men getting raped, people should be disgusted and angry, not calling people “soft” or “newgen”. like wdym someone calls out fetishisation and normalisation of rape and you get some old fujoshi going “omg you newgens are so soft, you wouldn’t have handled bl back then” HUH????
They're so used to rapes and non-con to the point they think it's normal yuckk
THIS omg i think the problem lies in how queer media was in general and maybe still it sometimes, and we often seen queer relationships being fetishized. so these so called old fujoshis don't really care about them as real people, but just some"other". im sure if it's their own form of straight media they'd call out rape (in most cases im not saying all), or at least there would be some kind of controversy, but when it's queer relationships there's this weird idea that it's okay since it's not the "normal" straight relationship. and queer media, for the longest time, has portrayed the same. it's insane literally how many manga/manhwa/manhua(s) have rape and people are okay with it :/ (sorry for the rant)
no don’t apologise, im happy to see more people who can actually think. i’d also like to add, a lot of these fujoshis are straight women, and many of which are homophobic - like they looooovveeee to read bl, but when it comes to gl, they go batshit insane. another thing i’d like to add is that there was this tweet within the community going around a while back and the fujoshis basically said they don’t care bc it’s nice to see men being abused and raped for a change, rather than women EXCUSE ME??? as a woman myself, i think thats a vile way of thinking and those people need help. this attitude of theirs is exactly why bls with rape are the most popular and loved (ie. low tide in twilight, roses and champagne, passion, code name anastasia etc) and why bl authors (who are also usually women) keep pumping out rape stories. it’s genuinely revolting
exactly!! ive seen so many people (as u said, specifically straight women) go crazy over bl but when it comes to gl they hate it :/ and wow wtf they really said "it's nice to see men being abused for a change"???? my god i don't even know how anyone can think like that :((
Like fr, those 'feminist' who belittle men everytime too. Sure, jokes and banters exist BUT EVERYTIME to the point it gets exhausting. I'm a feminist myself, so I think that means equality, not belittling one another. One time I saw a man, who was SA'd as a child. The comments were filled with both men and women with crude words, but some of those women were 'feminist' and ask what he was wearing, he ask for it, and stuff, like seriously that's soo fucked up.
THIS!! im a feminist myself as well, and people these days really don't know the true meaning of being a feminist and attach the term to these vile people. these fake feminists think aiming for a matriarchal society is the answer while essentially following the patriarchal power structure. and as far as i know, feminism does NOT aim for that. what these 'feminists' are doing are actually a warped version of patriarchy itself, trying to oppress people — men or women or any other genders, in the name of feminism. so by asking questions like what were u wearing, if he was asking for it, to a rape victim, they were inherently following a patriarchal oppressive structure thinking just because they're directing it on a man it was feminism. truly disgusting.
I can't believe people actually downvoted comments about noncon, you sick fucks. It is a smut, yes, but still it's noncon. I think it's these kinds of fantasies that increased harrassment and rapes, honestly. Gave me goosebumps in a bad way. I'm not 'kinkshaming' or anything but noncon thing is too weird. Mc got no choices, both sides, eugh. Why are all yaoi like this, bruh. And what's up with these 'newgen' thing? Literally anyone could start late, just because you're a fujoshi earlier does NOT mean you are more experienced, grandpa.