Atp, they both need to break up for them to realise how they're both wrong and right and how they're both inconsiderate with each others feelings despite genuinely liking each other. Had Garam just appreciate and acknowledged Jaehyuks efforts despite him not fully understanding how one shpuld make so much effort for him, would make Jaehyuk feel reassured that his feelings and efforts are properly reciprocated.
Ik that Jaehyuk isn't really looking for a "give-and-take" where Garam should do the same efforts as he does, like simply saying when your birthday is (which Garam "forgot" to tell despite dating for months), but simply appreciating without questioning and saying they shouldn't do so much is so wrong and disrespectful to the person's time, effort, and thought to it. It makes me sad if the only way to make this relationship work is for Jaehyuk to constantly be the one chasing and compromising and be the one having to first initiate a conversation. Garam should try and talk properly and should think about what Jaehyuk feels too without running away again.
Jaehyuk on the other hand, is being too extra sometimes, despite actually trying to do something without fully understanding what Garam truly means and feels is also one thing. He doesn't try to fully comprehend it and just goes along his merry way of what he thinks is right to make Garam comfortable without thinking about the consequences he will make. (Aside from putting that ex in court)
Garam feels uncomfortable going outside his comfort zone, Jaehyuk just wants to feel reassured that he is loved too.
Atp, they both need to break up for them to realise how they're both wrong and right and how they're both inconsiderate with each others feelings despite genuinely liking each other. Had Garam just appreciate and acknowledged Jaehyuks efforts despite him not fully understanding how one shpuld make so much effort for him, would make Jaehyuk feel reassured that his feelings and efforts are properly reciprocated.
Ik that Jaehyuk isn't really looking for a "give-and-take" where Garam should do the same efforts as he does, like simply saying when your birthday is (which Garam "forgot" to tell despite dating for months), but simply appreciating without questioning and saying they shouldn't do so much is so wrong and disrespectful to the person's time, effort, and thought to it. It makes me sad if the only way to make this relationship work is for Jaehyuk to constantly be the one chasing and compromising and be the one having to first initiate a conversation. Garam should try and talk properly and should think about what Jaehyuk feels too without running away again.
Jaehyuk on the other hand, is being too extra sometimes, despite actually trying to do something without fully understanding what Garam truly means and feels is also one thing. He doesn't try to fully comprehend it and just goes along his merry way of what he thinks is right to make Garam comfortable without thinking about the consequences he will make. (Aside from putting that ex in court)
Garam feels uncomfortable going outside his comfort zone,
Jaehyuk just wants to feel reassured that he is loved too.