Ts is SOOO messy

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and needs to get over his inferiority complex. I'm glad he's standing up for himself, but he shouldn't use that as an excuse to lash out and pretty much hit (abuse) and insult Su-ah.

However, Su-ah a whole big issue himself. He's obsessive. Part of me feels like its a consequence of being labelled as an omega as a child so he still possess some internalised omegaphobia.

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Because, Juhyeok is an omega, he might view him as the omaga he never was or still view him as an alpha that he wants to be? (My bad guess). And he's showing this through coersion, forcefulness and not respecting boundaries. Scenting someone without consent is sexual harassment! Strong arming someone into sex when theyre uncomfortable and saying no, then forcing them to accept it because theyre feeling good, is still rape! Su-ah needs to accept that Juhyeok doesn't like him (at the moment), he's not his counterpart so he should pipe down a little and work on his own issues first.

They need time apart and possibly other love interests before they can be together.

(Ramblings of a mad woman.)

I love you for this explanation <3

Nah I wholeheartedly agree with this, they both have issues and are not mutually beneficial to each other atp-

Guess we’re both mad women-

I get irked by the slightest defense of Suah, but ykw fair explanation ig

You're right but let's clear up that juhyeok didn't use suah for gain??? he would've never "used" suah if suah never scented him in the first place

Shi I forgot that ok fuck Suah after all

Lol yeah I don't agree with any juhyeok slander, his problems are internal and he's a good person. He only ever lashed out at suah because he'd been begging suah to leave him alone and suah never listened. Shah's problems are external and he makes it everyone elses problem that he's dependent on juhyeok

a counter arugement is how much juhyeok refused to take caution that forced suah to scent mark him to keep him safe. we know juhyeok refuses to wear a collar, doesnt take his meds serious to the point that suah actually walks around with it. suah is a dominant alpha yet he walks around with omega meds. in a perfect world juhyeok would have taken his meds seriously, actively learned to control and be familiar with pheromones while still trying to be manly and everything he thinks he needs to be. the problem originated with juhyeok and this isn't victim blaming just acknowledging that juhyeok was the source of the first problem that caused the other problems. someone mentioned how much juhyeok blames suah for his own problems, suah present, he complains, absent he complains.

This argument completely strips juhyeok of his autonomy though. He needs to learn on his own, hes an adult who never realised how to live as an Omega because suah never let him. If I choose to be stupid and walk around a dangerous area at midnight then get robbed, thats my fault for fucking around and finding out. As a heavily sheltered child who wasn't allowed to leave the house to hang out with friends till I was 15, I get unreasonably anxious doing things my peers do easily like just booking a taxi or paying for public transport because my dad never let me live because he was scared of me being hurt. It causes more harm in the long run. I would know and that's why I never get when people act like Suah is in the right. I get why he does it, but it's not a solution.

Either way, my gotcha for your point is always that if his main concern was juhyeoks safety, why was he willing to leave juhyeok to be raped on the streets over his feelings being hurt? Why has he now forced juhyeok into sex? The simple reason is bc it was never about protecting juhyeok, it was for selfish reasons. Because he wanted to reserve juhyeok for himself.

Pushing that aside, what was suahs plan for if he was to die suddenly or they were to fall out and hate each other? Then what would juhyeok do? He isn't thinking ahead at all. His reasoning is selfish and isn't a solution in the long run.