My point isn't that she shouldn't be held accountable my point is he should be held accountable first. Also it doesn't matter if she knew about the marriage because when he told her about the marriage she was already 2 years into this relationship, and emotionally invested. He knew she wasn't going to leave him, he had already made her financially and mentally dependent on him.
Like if the wife had found her and slapped her earlier in the story I would have been rooting for her. It's just the fact that it came after the relationship between the two ended that really rubs me the wrong way. I don't know maybe I just feel bad for her because I see she's trying to make progress and move on with her life, but he keeps coming back.

OMGGGGG!! Am I happy to see the wife finally, yes. Am I happy about how she showed up though, ABSOLUTELY NOT. Like it would be when she's not even involved with him anymore. He's so irritating he couldn't just respect her decision, now his wife showing up ruining her life.
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Also the fact that she showed up and slapped her is crazy. Especially considering he said she didn't care about him having an affair, and that she was also having an affair. Now I did think he was lying when he mentioned that at first, but we never saw the wife so I assumed there was some truth to it.
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Might I just add that I hate women who get mad at the girl. LIKE your husband literally sleeps right next to you. Take that up with him. There's no way I should be getting reprimanded before him. He's the one who made a vow to you not me. I just find it crazy that he's surprised that his wife showed up to her school. Imo if she had a problem with him cheating on her take it up with him not her. Cuz according too him your marriage is for show. That sounds like you guys need to iron out a few details in the agreement.
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