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I would agree with you if this happened to me without ML but I’d also do the same as mc. If my bf reacted that way to someone disrespecting me, all my anger would fade away. All I’d be left with is awe and love for the man I chose as my partner. So I’d be able to think rationally about the situation.

No bc no way id be so calm and able to rationalize the situation, I would have gone with ml's plan 100%