It depends cuz both the things you mentioned are transient as people are meant to change with time or in worst case scenario, die and jobs aren't stable but if we look at the choices I think I would pick the love of your life option (if I had a lover that is)
that’s true, i didn’t think of it that way. may i ask what’s your reasoning? i’m just curious to know why’d someone give up one for the other.
ehhh its quiet simple actually, because intrapersonal relationships are harder to find than jobs. anything that pays the bills does the work but finding someone who is ready to stand by your side and support you in your hardships is better in so many ways
Money can always be earned back but it's difficult to find someone who is loyal and understanding to yourself. Also the right person will try to support your dream career, even if it's not in the form you had in mind in the first place
I’ve been married for over 20 years and I’d never give up my husband for my career (even if I had my dream career). It would be like giving up half of myself for a job. You can make money however and do your “dream career” as a hobby, which is what I do.
if you were to choose between the love of your life and your dream career, what would you choose?
loyl as in they’re your spouse forever (no ethical or immoral problems). whereas your dream career is smooth sailing to your desired career path.