Id say talk it out with him, breaking up seems a bit too much considering the mental state youre in itll probably just make you feel shittier, please take care of yourself<3
okay thanks for the advice <3
Of course! All the best luck .
honestly I had a relationship like that. I broke up bc I was unable to take care of myself so it was even worse taking care of someone else, so I broke up. But our relationship wasn't good from the start and not really healthy so it didn't help. If you and your bf love each other and have a healthy dating life (without thinking about how you are mentally rn) you should be able to work things out.
Like the person above said you should talk to him about that, and you will figure out things together, because you are two in it.
It will be okay, maybe you need help from a professional and wanting to heal is important too. He cannot help you, but he can be by your side during this healing journey <3
take care
oh my gosh you are so sweet thank youu<3 i sorry to hear what you went through but i hope u are okay now
so we have been dating for 3 and half years and he is the beat bf anyone could ask for the thing is for the past one and half year i have been really struggling mentally still i tried my best to be the best girlfriend but the past six months i have been struggling a lot and the last thing i want is to be in a relationship he has always been there for me and he’s working really hard for our future and i feel like a hypocrite . Whenever im going through an episode i just isolate myself from everyone and just spend time by myself and just try to fix things myself and he hates when i don’t talk to him basically i feel like he is better off without me because its better not to be in a relationship with someone who is mentally struggling