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I just REALLY wanted to tell the world

Bonnetwearer5670 May 14, 2026 5:31 am

I have a big fat ass crush on this girl(i am also female) and I confessed to her on Monday. She responded yesterday and told me she liked me too but because of trust issues she wants to stay friends for now. I really like her and I am reading too much into her every action, like I'm in trouble with my impure imagination rn. The issue is I keep thinking we are dating. We are 100% not in a relationship. Istg I have no clue if she even likes me, but I keep expecting something from her. How do I fix this?
TLDR: I'm in a situationship but I keep thinking of it as a proper relationship, how do I fix that??? ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄

Responses
    Jae May 14, 2026 5:35 am

    Well if she's responding kindly to it, then you should court her to get her to trust you! I have trust issues too and I tend to friend zone people because I'm afraid that they'll eventually leave me if I give in. If you show her that you're willing to stay and work hard for it, then she'll eventually soften up and come to trust you!

    Bonnetwearer5670 May 14, 2026 5:39 am
    Well if she's responding kindly to it, then you should court her to get her to trust you! I have trust issues too and I tend to friend zone people because I'm afraid that they'll eventually leave me if I give i... Jae

    Ok, I'll do that

    Jae May 14, 2026 12:12 pm
    Ok, I'll do that Bonnetwearer5670

    Fighting!