help me find these 3? manhwas

1st manhwa: from what i remember the female lead can control spirits, and the most notable one from my memory is a water spirit. but can control many spirits as she has attribute for them
2. idk if this is the same manhwa but FL goes to the sea ish and also has spirit powers and meets a guy of like the sea tribe kinda beat.
3. is FL in a household with father two older brothers and a younger sister. I think she is the outcasted child? i remember a scene where FL one older brother went up to the attic and watched fireworks tgt