Look I get what y'all mean, but this is why y'all should finish reading the manga first! MC wasn't innocent either, he automatically assumes that her father's a deadbeat just cause he let his 14 year old daughter alone to fend for herself in their home. Tomoka sees her father as her pride, so she saw that as an insult for automatically assuming that a stranger is no better parent for Tomoka. Tomoka is also in the wrong for hitting MC pretty harshly, there's no doubt! But immediately putting Tomoka in the wrong without knowing the context is very biased, and it's like putting MC as a saint. MC said that out of worry since Tomoka is younger than him, meaning he has good intentions! But his first assumption in one of the chapters was literally "But you're just a little kid— and a girl." Ridiculing her solidarity without meaning to.
They left in an awful note, but in the end, Tomoka is just a kid who always puts her dad first before anyone else ever since her mother died when she's just a child. MC wasn't able to fully comprehend that because he has an awful relationship with his father, and in his mindset, the child is supposed to be dependent to their parents— not the other way around. We can see that in the next following chapters, we can see that her father is always dependent on Tomoka without meaning to because "Tomoka's a strong girl, she can handle it" without realizing that there are limitations, especially to a child who's been carrying herself to be "less than a burden" to her father.
In the end, MC and Tomoka were able to reconcile after realizing that though they are different, they're both equally the same as well. MC might have not realized how powerful having a loving parent due to his father's negligence but he was able to realize that all families are different when it comes to showing their love. Like Tomoka bottling her feelings to not worry her father, and her father working hard for the future of his daughter. It's not about words of love, but also the actions of love.
Tomoka realized her mistakes and apologized FIRST and in the end, both MC and Tomoka apologized in the following chapters and reconciled thanks to their similar hobbies. This is not about how "women are always placed in the wrong in terms of BL genre" it's about how WOMEN CAN BE MISUNDERSTOOD in terms of BL genre due to misogynistic lenses, and the understanding of feelings, and how diverse family can be when it comes to affection, and how assumption based on a narrow mind can be harmful to ones who strive to survive for their love ones.
Look I get what y'all mean, but this is why y'all should finish reading the manga first! MC wasn't innocent either, he automatically assumes that her father's a deadbeat just cause he let his 14 year old daughter alone to fend for herself in their home. Tomoka sees her father as her pride, so she saw that as an insult for automatically assuming that a stranger is no better parent for Tomoka. Tomoka is also in the wrong for hitting MC pretty harshly, there's no doubt! But immediately putting Tomoka in the wrong without knowing the context is very biased, and it's like putting MC as a saint. MC said that out of worry since Tomoka is younger than him, meaning he has good intentions! But his first assumption in one of the chapters was literally "But you're just a little kid— and a girl." Ridiculing her solidarity without meaning to.
They left in an awful note, but in the end, Tomoka is just a kid who always puts her dad first before anyone else ever since her mother died when she's just a child. MC wasn't able to fully comprehend that because he has an awful relationship with his father, and in his mindset, the child is supposed to be dependent to their parents— not the other way around. We can see that in the next following chapters, we can see that her father is always dependent on Tomoka without meaning to because "Tomoka's a strong girl, she can handle it" without realizing that there are limitations, especially to a child who's been carrying herself to be "less than a burden" to her father.
In the end, MC and Tomoka were able to reconcile after realizing that though they are different, they're both equally the same as well. MC might have not realized how powerful having a loving parent due to his father's negligence but he was able to realize that all families are different when it comes to showing their love. Like Tomoka bottling her feelings to not worry her father, and her father working hard for the future of his daughter. It's not about words of love, but also the actions of love.
Tomoka realized her mistakes and apologized FIRST and in the end, both MC and Tomoka apologized in the following chapters and reconciled thanks to their similar hobbies. This is not about how "women are always placed in the wrong in terms of BL genre" it's about how WOMEN CAN BE MISUNDERSTOOD in terms of BL genre due to misogynistic lenses, and the understanding of feelings, and how diverse family can be when it comes to affection, and how assumption based on a narrow mind can be harmful to ones who strive to survive for their love ones.