maybe I’m js too empathetic( if that’s been the word for it) but I can see why he did what he did and same with jun granted they both did wrong things it makes sense when u consider their characters and yohans family issues. in no way am I defending either of them i just wanted to say that it went too far but considering everything i feel like they both are the victim nor are they the villain if u get what i mean?
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arent* oh my gosh sorry I’m tired when typing this
how is yohan the victim in any way comparable to jun...mistreatment yohan gets from his family is not jun's fault, and jun tried to help the situation because he felt bad about yohan not getting dinner which ended in him getting assaulted and then abandoned totally by yohan.
well u can’t compare either of them that’s not what I was trying to do I was just saying that neither of them are all bad and jun did want to help but he also did it because of his own pride he liked feeling like he was yohans savior and he even said something like this himself he was selfish and didn’t think to consider yohans feelings he was just too focused on being his “savior” to actually look at his face and see how he felt during it
yeah but you said neither were victim or villain, jun being selfish is not enough to be treated so horribly by yohan. also what you are doing is literally comparing them i fear but that's besides the point.
oh boi
reading this makes my blood boil it has nothing to do with you op im sorry dhaksjaj but yohan just makes my blood boil and this specific scene too i read the novel awhile back and it's just coming back to me now oh lawd
like you're remembering how horrible he is? wait i wanted so bad for this to get better, i dont want it to be the thing where the author destroys their relationship beyond repair and then forces the ending...bruhh
i dont think i managed to finish the whole novel, its been a while really. but it really does get worse for the two of them before it gets better. yohan did have a chasing arc but i don't remember anything else im sorry!!
no ur good, as long as some arc exists ig lol....
yeah I said that yohan is going too far I was just trying to say that I can understand how both of them feel and why they are doing what they’re doing or what they did in juns case
no thats the problem how are you understanding of what yohan did it did NOT match in magnitude to the input (juns actions) lmao
oh my god this is going in a circle I understand both characters because I can put myself in other peoples shoes and be considerate and not ignorant and only think about one side of things?? also as I’ve said two times yohan IS going too far
see, i get he was frustrated about jun being a little embarrassing at the dinner, but like, that could not have warranted what he did to jun. AT ALL. im just confused, ngl...like its just so sudden and weird and i guess its the psych issues that must be involved and idk miscommunication at a peak rn