holy victim blaming
How TF is she wrong she knows he's depressed that's why SHE DIDNT WNAT HIM TO KNOW HE WAS SAD do you think she wanted him to hear that obviously not who the fuck wants to hear that to their face? Do you know jarring that would be to hear? It might cause even more misunderstandings It might ruin a friendship. You just wanna check up on your friend and then they suddenly go I hate you to your face how do you think that'll go?
I understand that she was trying to cheer him up. But if anyone were in his place they probably would’ve reacted the same way irritated. Even you or I might have reacted like that, so we can’t completely blame him. He didn’t push her on purpose. He was dealing with his own problems and depression. And if you’re saying that if she had told him I hate you to his face, it would’ve hurt him and caused misunderstandings, then now that he ended up hearing it anyway, wouldn’t that hurt him even more? And I’m not victim blaming. I just wrote what I felt. What happened to her was wrong, and what happened to him was wrong too. In this situation, I don’t think it’s entirely her fault or his fault.”
What the hell was that? If she was hurting and in pain, she should’ve told him directly. In front of him, she acted like I got lucky that my left hand hurt not the right and then later said I hate him. If she had said it to his face maybe he wouldn’t have felt that bad. He was already really depressed, and she just added to it. I know it’s his fault too, but she’s wrong as well.