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Cmiiw but ryder has never said he's the 'papa'. He in fact chose to be the 'mama' like everyone else in the mansion. He also didn't explicitly said he sees himself as a dad and miria as the mother. He only refers MIRIA as the mother/wife in their married relationship. It was never about a father mother relationship in the first place. Only a mama.

Even mori said ryder is his mama, so i wish people would stop calling ryder a papa