I feel like they are pushing for a "gap moe" on it and it's excruciating to see, well for me. The way I see it now is a love trope rather than pushing the "desire" she gave as her first advice that pushed iruma.
She really cooked during walter park incident, highlighting her leadership and instinct to protect but good lord the swimming "date". I had to skip that chapter and the anime. ( ̄へ ̄)
I'm an AlicexIruma personally. But I understand the Ameri pairing with Iruma, like above said it's like gap moe. I don't think her acting girly around Iruma is making her less strong as a character though. A tomboy doesn't always have to act like a tomboy to prove she's a strong character. I think it adds more depth to her as a character instead of being portrayed as this strong disciplined demon all the time
literally!! The way she acts around iruma is genuinely making me starting to dislike her when I used to love her character and them reading together, I was honestly hoping for a platonic or one sided relationship between them. I love irumaxalice too because it obviously makes more sense and I would love to see their relationship in the future when iruma becomes demon king

I like Ameri's character. Her strong leadership, her soft features especially when she laughs or smile sincerely and how she interacts with the misfit girls, especially with how to be girly girl from elizabeth-dono.. even her fight with opera-san
But i never like her antics or how she's delulu, possessive or "in love" with iruma. She acts as if "aww what would iruma do for me" "why do u have other girls" "why iruma didn't do ths for me" "get marreid" "in the book it was like, then does it mean.." like why does she claim everything revolves around her with iruma. It's not even cliche, it's unbearable really. I already have this ick when i read the manga, then watching it on anime is even worse. Like a second hand embarrassement & errr feeling.
To be honest , there's more chemistry with ronove and mafra-san or zeze and chima T^T. But this is my opinion guys, and i know majority is IrumaxAmeri. For me it went cliche, after we had glimpse of ameri's mother as a human from way earlier chapter. Like do they need to be together to satisfy the previous love story? ( ̄△ ̄)