I understand that garam is frustrating at times but you have to realize that trauma is a very fucked up thing, ESPECIALLY if you keep hearing from literally everyone in your partner’s life that they aren’t serious about you and that it won’t end well. It’s honestly ridiculous that garam even has to hear that from Jaehyuk’s friend of all people. Like imagine you are finally starting to overcome your trauma and place your trust in your partner(an ex homophobe) so much so that you get rings but his parents give you a dose of “reality”. No matter how tough you are, it’s difficult to navigate through that. I get his hesitation, though I wish he expressed it better but it’s pretty spot on for people in their young 20s.
I understand that garam is frustrating at times but you have to realize that trauma is a very fucked up thing, ESPECIALLY if you keep hearing from literally everyone in your partner’s life that they aren’t serious about you and that it won’t end well. It’s honestly ridiculous that garam even has to hear that from Jaehyuk’s friend of all people. Like imagine you are finally starting to overcome your trauma and place your trust in your partner(an ex homophobe) so much so that you get rings but his parents give you a dose of “reality”. No matter how tough you are, it’s difficult to navigate through that. I get his hesitation, though I wish he expressed it better but it’s pretty spot on for people in their young 20s.