He may have groomed her but he didn't manipulate her to where she can't live without him no matter what(I'm saying this because this is the type of situation he had Ian in, remember he wasn't resisting her all of this time, even when he wasn't picking up her calls at one point he still quickly went back to her). Because she unrightfully lost her baby. A lot of people may want to put her in the victim category. However, she is not the same archetype to even be put in that category in comparison to Aida from Aisha.

Blondie may be a “bad” person but the husband is the main villain he emotionally manipulated both blondie and FL. To the point where blondie got so dependent on him that she can’t live without him no matter how bad he treats her.