Yeahhh, I agree to that...the seme love the uke so much but the mother was like 'its because he is an omega, you will also feel like it even if it's not him' something like that. It's so long I maybe wrong, and that I just recently remember that I read some manga like this, and I can remember the title.
Get a glandectomy, remove those pheromone detectors, that should be no problem for these story, we even have splenectomy, appendectomy, thyroidectomy, gland should pose no problem, it's not like they function as kidney nor liver. They're literally just gland pheromones, an omega can still get prego as long as they have a womb, the womb also has hormones so gland removal and pheromone detectors shoyld be remove

It's a BL and an omegaverse (I think). The last chapter I read on that manga is the seme's mother (?) wanted to prove to uke that her son was only attracted to uke's pheromones. To prove it, she drugged a female omega and make her in heat in front of the seme ╥﹏╥...and the seme was attracted to the Omega's scent and went to rut (?) and attacked the omega while the uke watched it all happened. The uke tried to stop them and separate them both but both were not in right minds. It was so bad to my heart that I forgot if I even saved it to my list cuz I can't find it.