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Am I the asshole for lying to my friend and "partner" about us having sex which led to our breakup?

f4ggykrueger May 26, 2026 3:49 am

I, 20something beta male, is an absolute dumbass and agreed to "date" my Alpha (20something male) friend. Now, it has been 7 years since our relationship started. He does not show any sexual interest towards me and seems to even dislike me at times because I am a beta, but after all this, I stayed in the relationship because I was in love with him.
A couple days ago we accidentally had sex while I was accompanying him on a business trip because he seemed drunk during. The next morning, I lied about it and made it seem like I was in another room and that he had sex with someone else. But today, he confessed to me that he was going out with another omega. I think he is referring to the "omega" he slept with at the hotel, which was me but he does not know this. I was initially shocked and wanted to refuse his decision, but after thinking things through, I realized the nature of our shitty relationship and how unhappy I was. So, I agreed and told him we "we are not breaking up, we are just ending our friendship," and walked away.
So reddit, am I the asshole?

TLDR: I'm a stupid fucking idiot dating another stupid fucking idiot.

Responses
    Lamp May 26, 2026 3:55 am

    IM CRYING TS IS SO FUNNY 100% accuracy

    s1nfulsparr0w May 26, 2026 4:40 am

    Sighs alright let's put on the reddit hat.

    YTA for sure. Even though the relationship does seem "shitty" at least the alpha didnt lie and actually admitted to his 'cheating'. You lied about not being the one who slept with him (how does he even think he slept with an omega when youre a beta??? Ive seen drunk alphas, theyre hypertuned to that pheromone shit fr!!).
    I do think it was a good idea to call off the relationship!

    Ilovesylus May 26, 2026 4:41 am

    I love this

    Ichigo May 26, 2026 4:48 am

    yes. you are in fact the asshole!! lol