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so one day my roommate who's also a very close friend shouted at me . i still don't know t...

june May 26, 2026 5:01 am

so one day my roommate who's also a very close friend shouted at me . i still don't know the reason. after that it felt awkward and i didn't speak with her. she too didn't for 2-3 days. few days later she just called me by name to go and take the meals with her as we live in dorms. that was it , we had no other conversations later and now it has been more than one month. i wanted to resolve everything bw us bcz i was hurting and i thought she was too. we were very close and i didn't think one simple conflict could end our friendship. but it did lol. one day i texted her to come outside. she didn't, instead asked why. then i said that i wanted to speak with her. and the reply was that the matter has become much bigger , she doesn't want to talk about it and also that she doesn't want to be friends anymore.
is it this easy lol

Responses
    aprilsapple May 26, 2026 5:13 am

    i have been on both ends of this and i hope you are taking care of yourself; dont reach out anymore though, i’d say

    june May 26, 2026 5:25 am

    thank you for worrying:))) i have decided to not reach out anymore. it would feel like begging for friendship

    aprilsapple May 26, 2026 5:45 am
    thank you for worrying:))) i have decided to not reach out anymore. it would feel like begging for friendship june

    Definitely <3 always here if you need to talk to someone; i think your friend might have previous animosity/problems w you that she didn’t address. Hence the explosive reaction then the coldness.