As someone with bpd i also get this obsessive with other ppl its not as simple as 'get over it' I can't and it's not 'pathetic' or 'stupid' like most comments here are trying to say, it's because we've been abandoned by everyone else, so if we find someone who's nice and willing to stay we tend to cling on obsessively which also tends to drive those ppl away, not saying that she has bpd but it's obvious she's not mentally well and it's sad to see the comments not even trying to understand her but directly jumping to call her pathetic and stupid because believe it or not thats exactly how ppl with mental illness are treated irl, why can yall sympathise with ML but not with FL who's lost everyone and is obviously spiraling?
As someone with bpd i also get this obsessive with other ppl its not as simple as 'get over it' I can't and it's not 'pathetic' or 'stupid' like most comments here are trying to say, it's because we've been abandoned by everyone else, so if we find someone who's nice and willing to stay we tend to cling on obsessively which also tends to drive those ppl away, not saying that she has bpd but it's obvious she's not mentally well and it's sad to see the comments not even trying to understand her but directly jumping to call her pathetic and stupid because believe it or not thats exactly how ppl with mental illness are treated irl, why can yall sympathise with ML but not with FL who's lost everyone and is obviously spiraling?