And you're lying to yourself and making excuses for a coward hiding behind trauma. This was entirely caused by Garam's decision on how to behave about his trauma: run like a bitch, basically. Realistically what did he expect? He gets to move out and ghost his boyfriend and Jaehyuk is just supposed to sit quietly?? The argument was because Garam freaked out over the rings, and it compounded. Not his fault for having trauma but 100% his fault for not standing and communicating even after Jaehyuk knew everything about his trauma and literally got his face scarred for him. If you want to pretend Garam's trauma is a good excuse for the way he behaved, that's on you, and I feel sorry for the people you treat badly while blaming your trauma. We can't save ourselves from trauma, but we can choose how we react to it. And the one not willing to fight or communicate was Garam. Jaehyuk saying he'd quit his job and live in hiding wasn't healthy either, but he suggested SOMETHING, not just run away and have silence. Garam deserves to be alone for a while, and so does Jaehyuk, they became super codependent.
And you're lying to yourself and making excuses for a coward hiding behind trauma. This was entirely caused by Garam's decision on how to behave about his trauma: run like a bitch, basically. Realistically what did he expect? He gets to move out and ghost his boyfriend and Jaehyuk is just supposed to sit quietly?? The argument was because Garam freaked out over the rings, and it compounded. Not his fault for having trauma but 100% his fault for not standing and communicating even after Jaehyuk knew everything about his trauma and literally got his face scarred for him. If you want to pretend Garam's trauma is a good excuse for the way he behaved, that's on you, and I feel sorry for the people you treat badly while blaming your trauma. We can't save ourselves from trauma, but we can choose how we react to it. And the one not willing to fight or communicate was Garam. Jaehyuk saying he'd quit his job and live in hiding wasn't healthy either, but he suggested SOMETHING, not just run away and have silence. Garam deserves to be alone for a while, and so does Jaehyuk, they became super codependent.