everyone can have a first love but how did he settle if he took the time to see gray hair for who he was, how he supported him etc? by this logic anyone who has had a first love and is now in love with someone else settled. its possible to fall in love multiple times especially if its with someone you first loved platonically
You're right, everyone can have a first love. The problem though, is that we saw how that mini transition went from first love to gray hair, even gray hair felt like he was doing it out of pity. The amount of time it took for him to stop being in love with his first love was wayyyy too short, besides it has been since childhood, before he even met gray hair. It seemed liking settling in the end because he couldn't have the person he loved with his entire being that even had a keepsake in the name of love. Maybe it's the way it was written, but seems like settling. Like I said though, whatever makes them happy I guess
That is because he was never actually in love with hajin! So even when hajin rejected jooan, he did not give 2 hoots about it and moved on. Cuz he was never in love. He was into the concept of being with the hajin he knew when he was a kid.
i get your view point and could see why you say that. how i view it, the unrequited love was based on comfort provided by hajin as a child and served as a sort of motivation for blondie, and lacked any other real substance. the rejection by hajin couldve served as a eye opener. also i feel settling is when you choose something even though you want something else, and while its true blondie once wanted hajin, he no longer does. to each their own tho
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it's puppy love...
Gotchu. Maybe because I've seen almost similar cases in other media anime romances or other bl manhwa, so I could be projecting. But I appreciate this view, also you're one of the few people in the bl community who aren't childish or toxic when speaking to others, hence I respect this
all love
Hmm okay. He still settled because his first love is with someone else. Weird development, but whatever makes them happy