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Kasu June 1, 2026 3:49 am

I need help on understanding what is, so basically I just saw an edit about bl characters who are victims of and I'm so confused cause I just saw the top in lost in the clouds and the top in killing stalking, did the grapist put it inside of them or what?.. I'm so confused this question is not in disrespectful, rude or whatever bad meanings, I'm just confused really really so please really please can someone clarify this to me, thanks(〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

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    soue June 1, 2026 3:53 am

    they were sexually abused i think. i havent read litc yet but in sangwoo he was a victim of his own mom thats why he has severe oedipus complex.

    ConstantlyConfused June 1, 2026 4:32 am

    I assume you’re a younger reader, but it’s good that you’re reaching out and asking for clarification on a sensitive subject. Rape, in its SIMPLEST definition - is when person A forces or coerces(manipulates), person B into having sex with them when they don’t want to. Sex isn’t just putting it in someone though. So a victim of rape can be someone who was forced to give a blow job, drugged, or molested, etc. Basically any type of sexual act that they did not want to do - but had been done regardless.

    I would also honestly stop using “grapist” to describe the action and just say the word. I know it started as a way to get past the censorship stuff of tiktok, but you’ll see how using “softer” terms to describe heinous acts can actually be worse in the long term to make those actions not seem as serious as they are. lmk if u need further clarification!

    Kasu June 1, 2026 7:58 am
    I assume you’re a younger reader, but it’s good that you’re reaching out and asking for clarification on a sensitive subject. Rape, in its SIMPLEST definition - is when person A forces or coerces(manipula... ConstantlyConfused

    THANKS SO MUCH REALLY THIS HELPS ME A LOT ╥﹏╥