nah cuz it’s fr crazy how normalized this stuff is. and when you point it out people crucify tf outta you for it. like it’s one thing to be someone that enjoys it but it’s something else entirely when you start thinking it’s something defendable.
I’ve noticed that seems to be the underlying theme in a lot of BL. It seems like a BL isn’t a BL if there isn’t any noncon. It’s even worse in omegaverse. It’s like the author(s) are saying men can’t love each other without any pain. There is some truly green flag BL but those are far and few. I’m not a man so I can’t say what the relationship dynamics are in gay relationships but I’m pretty sure every act of intimacy isn’t some forceful act that leaves one feeling icky half the time. It’s just a shame since there’s some stories that would be everything if there wasn’t noncon. This one was a back and forth situation since it seems they both was doing things to each other even when one was sleeping (not okay but I could see how ppl would overlook the noncon in this specific story). However I agree with you. The author(s) can tone down the noncon to none(if it were up to me) but we both know that’s not going to happen.
Holy fuck you said it so perfectly... I have just read 3 BLs (including this one) in a row and all of them have this fuck-ass problem. I actually can't... and they have a great premise but always ruin it with this type of stuff, as I feel like the author cannot write anything without needing to involve this type of action for them to get together like genuinely lazy writing as hell bro....
I'm disappointed that the comments aren't talking about this so here I am.
If I'm going to be honest, this manhwa truly had potential, it just that it had so much dubcon/noncon
The 1st act was when MC was drunk. MC was sucking off ML, keep in mind that MC wasn't in the right mind but ML still tolerated his actions. The 2nd act was when they started jacking off each other to doing the actual deed, there were several times when MC said no and wanted to stop, ML ignored it and twisted MC's words, so he's technically not a green flag like these comments claimed. The 3rd act is another drunk incident, MC was giving ML a bj while he was asleep AND drunk, he even tried to put it in.
It really surprises me how a bunch of you guys chose to ignore this. Besides that, the plot was nice, its similar to honey bear, all the dubcon and noncon was just really off puting and sickening to read.