If you look at it from an outsider's perspective, he's really showing up to ruin someone else's life and relationship with an unwanted child (while he was in a relationship with someone else). I do think the director should take responsibility but at the end of the day, it's the child that will be hurt the most if it's born as an unwanted kid whose "mother" doesn't have the financial or emotional capacity to raise it and whose father didn't want it. Also they had no idea whether their marriage would work out, and if they break up, things could only get worse. Getting married like this could ruin 3 people's lives at once.
If you look at it from an outsider's perspective, he's really showing up to ruin someone else's life and relationship with an unwanted child (while he was in a relationship with someone else). I do think the director should take responsibility but at the end of the day, it's the child that will be hurt the most if it's born as an unwanted kid whose "mother" doesn't have the financial or emotional capacity to raise it and whose father didn't want it. Also they had no idea whether their marriage would work out, and if they break up, things could only get worse. Getting married like this could ruin 3 people's lives at once.