I'm thinking he just didn't put two and two together. I mean, he was what, 12 back then? and met chaejun again 10 years later.how well do you remember the faces of people you only knew as a child, never had to think about again in 10 years, never had a photo or anything? and sure, you met someone woth the same name, but how rare a name is chaejun? and he doesn't remember him either, and he has a completely different vibe from the kid you were friends with 10 years ago, whom you though was A LOT younger than you, not just 1 year.
as a kid he never met the uncle either, and maybe when the uncle decided to falsely accuse him of giving his lover trauma, maybe he just said that chaejun was intentionally locked into a room for days by him, you know, not mentioning about the construction site.
also chaejun never talked about the incident himself, so no clues from there, and he didn't think something bad happened to little chaejun back then, so why would his mond go there?
idk, to me it's plausible, especially considering how emotionally exhausted his family kept seunghyun

Now I’m just wondering how seunghyun also forgot everything