This is her second life, remember? She was older than 10 before she regressed. Trauma in children also often causes them to act older than they are physically. She was raised having to watch other people's emotions carefully.
The translation saying Ricador "chased" her out is likely a mistranslation or something the maids are gossiping about, if I remember those early chapters right. The maids at the annex are planted by the distant relative and abuse her. They're limited in their knowledge of what the direct family is up to, hence why the distant relative demanded to have FL locked up in the annex, which Fenor corrects wasn't locking up his daughter for being shameful but for her protection. Hence this discrepancy in how Ricador's actions are described.
As for her 3rd brother? Yeah, I would have liked to see her be upset, but I also understand why she isn't. Rie watched her brother get murdered in front of her in the og timeline. She's lived an abused life of always having to walk on eggshells and be mindful of other's emotions before her own. Her family is her hope and reason for living in this timeline. She was upset with what he said, but didn't blame him because she feels guilty for being born. She blames herself because she learned she should be ashamed for being alive.
Hopefully, once she's secure in her family's attachment to her and gets some confidence, we'll see some childishness from her. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Aish, I wish so too! Good observation! But! That isn't justify how they keep messing up her narration! It's like they just want to make her a considerate child this second then have her say, "well I know my brother hates me but I can't be help that I'm a cursed child." Blah blah, like they make her a "considerate walking on eggshells with her family" type of child but also subtly make her blame her family treatment towards her. It make us hate the family then abruptly show us that the family isn't at fault. Feel manipulated at some point and it's annoying how it keep going with the same rule. #-.-)

Look I get it, she regressed. But this is so freaking vague! The family sure is something else. The author didn't... How should I say this? It's vanilla.
When she said "I should runaway to save them.", it seems a 10 years thought enough. But then, the way she behave is not a 10 years old. She behave way older. How can a 10 years old is so thoughtful?
Plus! She said, the second brother chase her out of the main house whenever she sneak in but they were "not" at odd. In fact he was nice to her?? She the one who said he chased her out. Not tell her to leave or anything that is more nice and the word "chase". And then after her third brother say that hurtful things, she just stand there and take it like her emotion isn't that if a 10 years old. How is a ten years old regulate emotion of other and quickly understand others emotions just because she went through the same thing? Shouldn't she resent them at least a little or maybe demand more justification? Like sure the boy was lonely for suddenly lost everything. So he behaving like this is what it should. But the girl saying "he was younger than me, it's understandable." Like girl! You were abandoned, neglected for your whole life and you are not sorry for yourself or the other way around blame yourself harder for being curse but you just go "okay, I understand." You didn't live long enough to regulate your emotional knowledge to this point and you're just 10 years old! You're not old enough to know that you're a kid. You should be thinking that your decision is the best. You should be impulsive, like the time you immediately want to run away after regressed. It's not your job to regulate others emotions.
Please understand and act like you're really 10 years old! You don't know the world enough to be this understanding of others! You were locked away in the anex! You were neglected! And the way the guy sus of her having picture book in her room to teach her read and write, thos knowledge isn't enough for you or your age to freaking understand these things so deeply! Be more impulsive if you're really 10!!