I dont like this take, this is the same language family members use when an abused kid (now old enough to legally get the hell outta there) decides to go no contact with a parental figure "You'll regret hating them if they die," "But she's your mom, your own blood!" it just leaves a disgusting taste in the mouth because who are you to decide whether or not I regret cutting off an abusive parent.
Here's two videos, they are both by the same person:
https://youtube.com/shorts/Tv-aiqrouCY?si=5h_s5ECcta5lsSxW
https://youtu.be/V8Lm36w27xo?si=Dax71ov_mFQDpSG7
You tell people not to "don't project your own self to hye sung or the others characters," but that's exactly what you're doing in your replies. Just because forgiveness, was the best course of action for you, doesn't mean it's objectively THE BEST course of action for every abused child to take. The best course of action for a formally abused child to take, is one that allows them to heal and recover mentally and if that was forgiving your mom, good for YOU, but that's not the best action for everyone to take.
Right? Lolz
My mom abused me actually, but I'm a child no matter how I hate her, she's my whole world so I still love her, my feelings are valid and I understand she does that not because of I'll intention but because that's all she ever grow up and knew about, i blame her for my trauma but i still love her cause she own up to her mistake and apologize for it, I think people that are saying bad things about the sung mom have bad experience with their own mom and projecting it, you can still forgive without forgetting, I think living a life with hating her is just too dull I rather forgive her and again YOU WILL ACTUALLY REGRET HATING THEM IF THEY DIED, BECAUSE MY FATHER DIED LOL AND I REGRET NOT FORGIVINGMaybe you don't get it, but familiar bonds especially parents can't be easily broken off, especially hye sung only have his mom back then to show him love so he's very attached to her, and again don't project your own self to hye sung or the others characters HIM AND GIVING HIM A CHANCE, IF YOU DONT WANT TO DO THAT ITS FINE NO ONE FORCING BUT YOU'LL LIVE WITH THE 'WHAT IF' IN YOUR MINDS AND WHEN YOU GET TO THERAPIST THE FIRST THING IS TO LEARN TO FORGIVE. so it's funny seeing all these comments mad because it shows how much I've grown from back then.